LEARN I MATTER® - BECAUSE RELATIONSHIP HEALTH MATTERS 


What if you could make a difference through understanding better? 

I'm Dr Cathy Betoin and I love introducing people to
The I Matter Framework and The Community Wheel to help progress thinking about a Relationship Health and a Life Skills Approach to improving wellbeing for adults and young people.   

CONSIDER AN I MATTER® RELATIONSHIP HEALTH LEARNING JOURNEY

 HELP YOURSELF AND HELP OTHERS

GP's, Educators, Coaches, Therapists Schools, Organisations Personal or Parenting Roles

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Strengthen adult and child well-being
for difficult times with solid foundations!


How do we develop shared starting points?

We provide ideas and resources that support relationship health education for professionals and linked non-professionals in a form that is easy to understand and practical .  This helps you progress your understanding and awareness for more joined up thinking.

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Relationships with children and other adults can be very confusing!  There is very little preparation so no wonder it is common to feel out of our depth at work or at home, especially when there is anxiety or difficult behaviour.    Now however there is a science we can learn.  It shows us how to understand better.   

It also shows us how the care and role modelling that adults offer young people now in home, school and community, impacts child and adult wellbeing now and in the future for the individual and for the people around them.   So, the understanding and skills of every individual and organisation matter.   What can you do?  You can: 

MAKE TIME TO BECOME RELATIONSHIP HEALTH AND I MATTER® INFORMED - THEN MORE SKILLED

We are committed to building networks focussed on progressing relationship health practice.
We work with professionals and organisations to share I Matter and Relationship Health Thinking 

What is unique about the I Matter® approach?

The resources of the I Matter Framework help professionals and linked non-professionals to become aware of and able to think about and talk about difficult situations with more clarity. 
 
When you are faced with demanding roles, challenging situations or concern about anxiety or difficult behaviour, rather than just providing you with quick tips, I Matter Training aims to give you a strong foundation in the issue of relationship health and the brain’s role - which is often a missing link in wellbeing.

The I Matter Online Learning Journey is a program grounded in decades of research on the importance of relationships in brain development and functioning.  It teaches you how to understand what you are seeing so that you can be a more active participant in finding the way forward in a range of situations to help yourself and others at home and at work.

An understanding of the I Matter Framework can also assist you in understanding the nature of stuckness.  This is when you know what needs to be done, but you feel unable to move forward.

Professionals can be licensed to use the resources to start conversations.  They can also be licensed to offer entry level workshops and study support for online learning for their own community of practice.


To learn more, explore the Free Trial Introduction which aims to explain our approach.  

I MATTER® LEARNING JOURNEY

The I Matter learning journey offers a method of learning about the foundations of relationship health practice   

ADDITIONAL SERVICES

The I Matter Learning Journey can be  complemented by study support via group or 1:1 consultations online or in your locality.

I MATTER COMMUNITY WHEEL

I Matter Community Wheel provides thought provoking online and local content and a range of events and options to learn more.

GP's, Educators, Coaches, Therapists Schools, Organisations Personal or Parenting Roles

Who are we?  Dr Cathy Betoin, Clinical Psychologist and experienced primary teacher and parent set up I Matter Training Ltd and Relationship Health Matters CIC to work together in the Kendal, Morecambe Bay area in an exciting collaboration to help professionals and parents and organisations to find more clarity so that they can help move forward with challenging situations with more confidence.

Where do we work?   Relationship Health ideas are relevant to everyone, everywhere.  However our home has been in the Kendal area where we work with GP’s and schools and the community.  We share our thinking more widely through the online programme and through books and our newsletter

How do we help?  We provide online and printed resources that are designed to facilitate reflection and discussion in your own roles at work, at home, and in school and community.   We also help professionals figure out how to use the resources for best impact in their own organisations.   People start in very different places.  However I Matter learning always benefits from local discussion.

Who do we help?   The resources are designed to be accessible to everyone who wants to learn.  We work with professionals including GP's, Teachers, Psychologists, Counsellors, School Nurses, Psychiatrists, Social Workers, Social Prescribers to help them strengthen their own understanding of the research evidence on what improves wellbeing for adults and young people with both typical and additional needs. The aim is to provide practical psychoeducation that can help you work with others to improve outcomes and results on issues that matter.

Why should I learn more?  We are living through challenging times that are rocking the security of everyone.  In the middle of this our relationships can be pushed hard, but they are also a key detail that can make most difference to the ability of adults and young people to cope.   So it pays to become well informed

 What's the priority focus? I Matter Training can be a foundation for, or a complement to, a wide range of well known approaches.  Whether you are wanting to feel better prepared to prevent problems, progress some early intervention or have some very specific concerns, then a better understanding of what the research evidence is telling us about improving wellbeing for adults and young people can make a really active difference.

Our current pilot:  until recently, I Matter Training has only been offered in the Kendal area and usually only via NHS services.  We are currently opening up options for a much wider professional community to access training with a view to introducing professionals to the ideas and resources of the I Matter Framework to assist them in their roles in their own communities.

Our commitment is to improving joined up thinking and practice around young people and families in the area of Relationship Health, because better understanding and skills can save a huge amount of time
and heartache!  

GP's, Educators, Coaches, Therapists Schools, Organisations Personal or Parenting Roles

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WILL I MATTER HELP YOU?

 

What Others Say About I Matter® Training

  • I Matter Training

    “The Kendal Integrated Care Community has adopted the I Matter Framework as a foundation for our thinking about how to work together in our community to help those who are struggling. Professionals and non-professionals are learning together. It feels good.”

    GP Safeguarding Lead Kendal Integrated Care Community

  • I Matter Training

    “The I Matter approach of considering the adults needs alongside those of the children is such a useful way to look at things and has turned the dynamics on its head for me. I have realised my stress levels are having a huge impact on all of us as a family and learning to change this is starting to make a difference.”

    parent of teenager with challenges

  • I Matter Training

    “EVERY teacher and parent would benefit from this programme. Parent carers are a group of people I would like to get this to. This would be a fantastic opportunity to bring a very isolated group of people together to improve the situation they are in. ”

    Children and adults of all ages

  • I Matter Training

    “I am a HLTA but also a parent and foster carer. I work with primary aged children, have 3 teenagers, and foster toddlers! This programme has been so valuable for each and every relationship I encounter on a daily basis. ”

    Trained for work and home purposes

  • I Matter Training

    “This programme has had a big impact on my own well-being which has meant that I have been more able to cope better with the expected and unexpected aspects of life in a calmer rational manner!! ”

    Key Stage 4 Leader and Parent

  • I Matter Training

    “The registration questionnaire really got me thinking. I realised how isolated I had let myself become and that this was not helping me or my child. I took action the next day and phoned a friend. I also made another follow-up appointment to speak with my GP. ”

    Parent

  • I Matter Training

    “The first time I completed the questions I didn't really understand what they were all about. By the third time I really understood what was being asked. At first we were really stuck. However It has been exciting to see the progress.”

    Parent of child with explosive behaviour

  • I Matter Training

    “This training has been so much more than I expected it to be. I have learned so many things that have changed my understanding of myself and of my child. I have worked with many services before this but this has really made the difference. Now I know why I Matter ”

    Parent of child with additional needs

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Dr Cathy Betoin
I hope you will want to learn more!


 Dr Cathy Betoin

Clinical Psychologist, teacher and parent. 


She set up I Matter Training Ltd and Relationship Health Matters CIC to work together in the Kendal, Morecambe Bay area in an exciting collaboration to help professionals and parents and organisations to find more clarity about the overlooked issue of relationship health

The aim is to help more peoplemove forward with challenging situations with more confidence.

  

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